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Kinks have their own vocabulary, and even in certain circles, not everyone uses words and sex terms the same. Urban Dictionary has two definitions for soft swap. If two couples agree to soft swap and each is using a different definition, there could be issues. Also this glossary allows us to have a consistent usage across the blog.

Always clarify with potential partners what their rules and limits are. Be explicit. However, it might not be good enough when you are heading to the bedroom. And once you are in the moment, bdsm bull might be too late to clarify before someone goes too far. We recommend taking the time to define your own playstyle as succinctly as possible practice that elevator speech!

I think it is safe to say that aftercare is mostly a BDSM term. Aftercare is more than just snuggles and hugs.

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Even though this is term is mostly used in the BDSM realm, I see a lot of value in applying this concept to swinging as well. I also think that aftercare is a great concept to bring into the substance-use world as well. This is a term used by swingers to identify couples who prefer to have sex with new partners rather than repeated swapping with the partners.

What a bunch of bednotchers! Bondage, domination, sadism, masochism. Words like bottombdsm bulland top help define the roles with a BDSM relationship or event. Often used as a BDSM expression to mean the submissive, being a bottom implies a passive role in sex. The bottom wants the top to be aggressive and take control of the act. Someone can be a bottom without being a submissive or even engaging in BDSM play. The term bull is used to describe a man who has sex with women who are in committed relationships with other men.

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In other cases, like when a bull has sex with a vixen or a hotwifethere is no humiliation aspect involved. A bull-hopeful is a guy single or bdsm bull who is trying to woo a woman in a committed relationship such as a cuckoldresshotwife, or vixen into allowing him to have sex with her.

However, given that some women collect a stable of returning bulls rather than having many one-night-stand bulls, a bull-hopeful might have had sex with the woman a few times but has yet to earn full bull status and entered her stable of regulars. Cheating is whatever people within their relationship define it to be.

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Chemical domination, or chem dom, is when someone takes a drug or substance to put them into a compliant or vulnerable state so that they can be manipulated or used sexually. Drugging someone without their consent is illegal, bdsm bull, and unethical. Taking advantage of someone who appears to be under the influence of an intoxicant including but not limited to alcohol is also illegal, immoral, and unethical.

Chemsex refers to the use of substances to facilitate or enhance sex. The term as well as the phrases wired play and party and play is historically associated with homosexual and high-risk sexual activity, but we use it to describe any time we have sex while intoxicated on a substance. A married couple that decides they are both OK with the other having sex other people i. Two couples who have sex as a foursome aka, swingers. These are all examples consensual nomonogamy.

And because everyone involved has consented to the arrangement, none of this is cheating. Cross play is a swinger playstyle deation to mean when there is some sexual interaction between members of different couples but without actual swapping. For example, if two couples are engaging in parallel play and the women kiss each other, that is cross play between the women. If one of the men starts squeezing the tits of the other woman, that is cross play between them. By the Merriam-Webster definition, it simply means a man with an unfaithful wife.

As a kink deation, a cuckold is a man who derives sexual pleasure from his partner fucking other men. This bdsm bull of cuckold was shared with me by The Cuckold Consultant in recent Twitter conversation about defining cuckolds. I love it! Cuckolding can be viewed as a spectrum. On one side, there is the masochist cuckoldwho gets sexual pleasure by being humiliated and degraded by his wife or girlfriend and her bull.

On the other end of the spectrum is the alpha cuckoldwho does not want to be humiliated but rather simply enjoys having his partner have sex with other men, perhaps watching it or ing in a MFM or MMF threesome. However, the term cuckold is often used to mean the masochist cuckold. Furthermore, we use the term stag rather than alpha cuckold. I have finally found a term for the woman in a relationship with cuckold, at least one verified by a woman in a relationship with a cuckold, and I like the term: cuckoldress.

We use hotwife and vixen to describe women who are in relationships with a stag rather a cuckold. The woman in a relationship with a cuckold. This is the gender-opposite of cuckold. A cuckquean derives sexual pleasure from having her partner fuck another woman with an element of humiliation or degradation involved. Short for dominant, Dom defines the role of the person in a BDSM scene who is in control and is dominating or, in the case of a sadist, inflicting pain sometimes referred to as sensation so as not to imply it is unwanted or damaging.

Domme is sometimes used as a female bdsm bull. Is it necessary? Technically, this is any time someone has two cocks, toys, or combo there of inside them at the same time. However, it is mostly used to refer to simultaneous anal and vaginal sex as opposed to spit roasting, which is oral and either anal or vaginal penetration.

Female-female-male threesome. Note the order of the letters. This implies contact between the male and female and between the female and female.

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As such, this initialism is used to mean all three people will have sexual contact with each other. Female-male-female threesome. This implies contact between the male and female only. As such, this initialism is used to mean the women will not have sexual contact with each other. A swinger playstyle deation that implies comfort with having genital-on-genital contact and full penetrative sexual interactions with people outside the main relationship. See also bdsm bull swapwhich is often used as a counter deation though the two are not mutually exclusive.

If you want to understand how I came up with this definition, I have a blog post that shows my work. This can either be with multiple men at the same time via double or triple or more penetrationsindividually one after the other, or some mix of the two. I would say that women can be gangbanged by other women and that men can be gangbanged by men or women. At which point, the better more inclusive definition is as follows: a gangbang is a group sex scenario in which the person or people being fucked is are heavily outed by the people doing the fucking.

Girl on the Net has a great blog post about the difference between group sex and a gangbang. I disapprove of that. Group play is a bdsm bull playstyle deation. A group play experience differs from a cross play experience because there is an element of swapping involved. Multiple couples having sex in the same vicinity, maybe in the same room, around the same pool, or even the same bed.

This could be contained to parallel play only or might involve cross play, but there is no intension to swap partners. Depending on the focus of the group, this could actually be a gangbang. Girl on the Net bdsm bull a great blog post explaining the difference.

Hotwifing differs from cuckholding because it lacks the humiliation aspect. However, given how masculinity is perceived, there are some people who argue that there is always an element of humiliation if your wife has sex with other men. We whole-heartily disagree. See also stag and vixen. Any sexual preference or act that is viewed as outside the bounds of normal, socially approved behavior.

Note that we specifically say viewedbecause there is evidence that things we perceive as kinky are actually commonplace. Erin and I do not conflate the two. You can about how and why we make the distinction between the lifestyle and swingers. Male-female-male threesome. As such, this initialism bdsm bull used to mean the men will not have sexual contact with each other. Male-male-female threesome. This implies contact between the male and female and between the male and male. Another term for consensual nonmonogamythe deation of open marriage implies both parties in the relationship have the freedom to have sex with whomever they wish.

Furthermore, I think the term implies the that the couple is not poly and therefore the nonmonogamous relationships are meant to remain nonromantic. I assume most swingers would not say they have an open marriage because open marriage implies the individual is able to select their paramours without consulting with their ificant other. Not to say an open marriage might not have rules i. Whereas swingers more often make their selection in coordination with each other. However, the phrase open marriage would apply to relationships that have a cuckoldresshotwifeor vixen — stag dynamic in which either participant or both is allowed to have sex with whomever they wish whenever they wish.

Please note, as with most of consensual nonmonogamy deations, people who are truly in open marriages are not cheating on each other because they have agreed to this arrangement. It is only cheating when someone goes against the agreed upon rules. Rather, we feel there is a certain spirit of unrestrained hedonism and cross-playing that differentiates the two. As such, this boundary is not easily defined. Parallel play is a swinger playstyle deation often used to mean when people have sex with their own ificant other no swapping near others who are also having sex maybe the same bed, maybe two beds in the same room.

There is little to no interaction between couples other than watching. If there is physical interaction between couples, that would be cross play.

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Parallel play is similar to, and I would say a subsect of, group sex with the major difference being that group sex does not imply no cross-play limit whereas parallel play does. Party and Play means to meet up with the intention of getting high partying and having chemsex playing. This is not necessarily a swinger lifestyle term, but couples and groups can meet up to PnP just as readily as singles.

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