Bdsm collars

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Disclosure: Affiliate links are included in this post. If you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission which supports our work and fuels our coffee addiction. Prefer to listen rather than read? Other people see it as a public if not understood expression of their relationship. Like everything we do in BDSM and kink, there is no one right answer.

Bdsm collars

While not used universally, a collar of consideration is a popular choice for new relationships. The definition is quite literal. Think of it like a stepping stone collar. In some kinky relationships, the next step after a collar of consideration is a training collar. Other kinksters might start with a training collar and ignore the collar of consideration. To most people in BDSM, collars symbolize ownership and protection of some sort. A protection collar affords the wearer the ability to be left alone by most other single Dominants without as much responsibility as someone in a training collar or collar of consideration.

At the same time, that submissive represents the Dom providing protection. A play collar may be the most relaxed kind of collar of the bunch. This is the one you wear during a kinky scene. When he puts it around my neck — at the BDSM club or at home — my body and mind prepare itself for the kinky fuckery to come. For the kinksters who want to collar or be collared, the day collar is extremely useful. For others, their collar has a locking mechanism and their Dominant has the key. Bdsm collars everyone places a lot of importance or symbolism on collars. But many people bdsm collars.

Part of that discussion is having an understanding of what different kinds of collars mean to you. In episode 99 of the podcast, we discuss collars and collaring.

Bdsm collars

Do you believe collars are important? Do you or your submissive wear one? What kind is it? Share with us in the comments below! My Master loves to dress me smartly, and sees my bdsm collars done-up shirt collar and tie as a symbol of my ownership. I like that! Anything can be a symbol of ownership — we just have to find what works for us. If someone is in a poly relationship can a submissive be collared?

The simple answer to that is a big old yes! Personally I p the subs in a poly would need to belong to the same Dom. I suggest you all sit down an have an open conversation. It all depends on what works for all the people involved.

So collars, where to start!?!? To me, mine are something that makes me feel whole, is a of who I am and that I am loved and cared for. It is something that takes a huge amount of trust on both sidesmeans that we are committed and that I have errant the right to proudly wear it!

It is also something that I draw strength from when I am on my own, it seems to make me more conferdent, calmer and I feel safe. I have 3 main types of collar — Day, Bedroom playand club collars play and protection.

My main day collar is a silver chained at the front with a large silver O ring and a smaller O ring. The large O ring is the boss man and the small one is methey are ed together like we are. I know its soppybut it really does mean that to us!

Bedroom collars are either a purple leather kitten style collar that ties with ribbon at bdsm collars back and has a tiny d ring or a pleated ribbon collar in purple and has a d ring on it. They are worn at night in bed or if we have kinky friends over to play! Mine say Mouse and then owned by and the boss mans full name on the back! They are super soft and lush to wear. I have a lot of issuses about people touching me without me knowing who they are.

I also have wrist and ankle cuffs to match them!

Bdsm collars

My collar does not come off with out the boss mans say so or unless it is a medical emerancy. It is his to take off and change. Bdsm collars is also allowed to change them. Someone has tried that with mine and I stopped them. A proud Boss man bought me flowers the next day! LOL, not a ramble…fascinating, though. Oh I also forgot my Permenent ones!!!! I then have a calder tattoo and the Boss man has the same one on his chest about an inch from his left nipple.

Its kind of are way of sayingyup nothing is splitting us up and we love each other very much. He wanted to have my name put on itbut I freaked out cos I think that is bad luck and would of lead to something bad happeneing! We just recorded the episode for tomorrow and I completely forgot to talk about tattoos as collars. Not sure how JB feels about it, though, lol. I have various I wear depending bdsm collars the occasion. I was collared by Lord Raven before he proposed to me.

No matter what I always have my tattoo! I really need to talk to JB about tattoos. My Dom and I are both married to vanilla partners.

Bdsm collars

The collar allows us to have a tangible of how important we are to one another. I just put a day collar, an ankle chain with a small diamond, on my sub. She surrendered everything to me but I have given her back autonomy in her professional, friendship, and family lives. I retain it bdsm collars everything else, and since we are both polyamorous, in her dating life. She also routinely now consults me for feedback on professional and family things, but she still has that autonomy. I guess many people want that. I know she is mine and her day collar has a clasp but in the two weeks since I put it on her she has not taken it off.

Bdsm collars

I am beyond ecstatic. All that matters is that what you have works for the two of you and makes you happy. Well thank you for listening ttfn. A question more than a comment. Are there specific types of collars that represent the different stages or levels of the collar? If so what are they as to protect my slave and let her know that she is cared for and will be watched over?

Bdsm collars

My Dom has a three collar system, training, day and permanent collar. It would be cool to have a dedicated to all of the wonderful collars people have gotten. That would be cool. There may be a group or on Fetlife that discusses it and shares that kind of info. Might be worth a look. You know, the bdsm collars you understand who you are and how you can best symbolize your relationship. The first collar I owned and used was my play collar.

Now, when it comes to my woman, she has been gifted one and earned two collars. Our power exchange narrative puts her in the role of princess and me in the role of King. Thus, the first collar she earned was my princess collar.

Bdsm collars

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